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Sorry everyone for the delay in the blogging. I had such a great topic to talk about the other day but as soon as I opened this up to start writing about it, my mind went completely blank! I STILL cant think of what it was! I know what the topic was but I can not for the life of me think what examples I wanted to use were :( So for today you will have to deal with a boring average blog about nothing interesting :) Arent we all excited?

Ok I just thought of a fun topic. Here we go!

What does everyone think about the whole "everything happens for a reason" deal? or "it was meant to be!" I often say those very cliche lines and sometimes I believe it. But do we believe in it because it applies to something that has just happened? For instance, right now I am listening to the new Third Eye Blind album. When I was 12 turning 13 I had a Bat Mitzvah and my (insanely dorky) theme was J100. Yes like z100 but with a J for Jamie :) How cool was I in 7th grade? Anyway as my gift I gave away mix CDs with all my favorite songs at the time that still haunt me. For weeks and months before my party I would listen to songs on the radio trying to pick my favorite few that would make the cut. The one song I KNEW had to be on it was Semi-Charmed Life by Third Eye Blind. Why you ask? Because every single time I would get in the car with my Mom and turn on z100, that song would be playing. Literally. It started getting a little creepy. I would always say ahh its my song! And probably dole out that wonderful cliche, that there had to be a reason that song was on. But for what reason? That I would always enjoy my car ride because that song was on? That could possibly be true but not because that song is deeply meaningful or anything. Is there really a plan for all of us, so when something great happens and everything seems to fall into place, it makes sense to say "it was fate!...it was meant to be". Or perhaps because something awesome happens right after something crappy, we all say "everything happens for a reason!". Maybe I will be famous because so many people read my boring blogs! And then I will get to say my blog was crappy for a reason :)